Age is a dodge. When males are young and full of power, they think that ages of 40 – 60 are very far. When male approaches 40s he thinks it is enough time till he gets 50. However, time runs extraordinarily fast and every man at older age wants to have passionate and faery sex as in youth.
Specialists say males with age suffer from sexual apathy and the number of sexual intercourses get reduced not just in couples who lived many years together but also in young ones. Specialists say that this is a result of sexual revolution of 70s and beginning of feminism that made males feel fear of being accused of sex abuse.
However, there is another opinion that peaceful and comfortable life makes males more weak and womanish because testosterone production lowers.
Some specialists claim that when male has no physiological problems then the problem is hidden in psychology.
Sex without love
Psychologists claim that sex without love based only on physiological satisfaction prevents from true sensations and pleasure, and also weakens male morally and makes him feel empty. However, sometimes male needs to have this sort of sex to blow off, but it is not recommended to have it permanently. Try to avoid sex with occasional partners in your life.
Each person is in want of love and this need must be satisfied. Moreover, allowing yourself romantic feelings you must know how to talk about them without any shame because inability to sound your feelings is considered a psychiatric disorder.
It is not a secret that sexual relations enrich life in many ways. With age people acquire experience. It means with age many things depend on you – if you really want sex you may do it. You must do it.
A woman, that is permanent male sexual partner for years, may arise in him same sexual desire as in youth if she wants it. She must throw away her hang-ups about her age, forget about grumpiness and everyday routine, and should refresh memories about love, soft words, desire to give pleasure to her man and to get pleasure herself from intimacy with her partner.
It is important for the man to feel sure of himself in any domain of his life. So the woman who supports confidence in her man is infinitely right. Remember that doubting in male's abilities greatly cools down sexual desire.
